The Day I Knew I Was Done Drinking Forever

When I made the decision to stop for good. I knew I was done forever. I knew I was done because I had so many stops and starts prior to that. I knew that no matter what happened in the future (good or bad) alcohol was no longer an option and I haven’t had a...

Here’s What I Know To Be True

1. There are really cool people (celebrities, people I meet every day) who don’t drink. 2. Most people don’t care or notice whether you drink alcohol or not. Don’t assume the worst before going into an interaction or an event. Some people will...

Can You Stay With Yourself Here?

This is what one of my favorite yoga teachers and somatic coaches says to me often. “Can you stay with yourself here?” – Jay Fields. Notice what you feel – anxiety, sadness, anger, pain, hurt, excitement, joy, pleasure, whatever…Can you...

My Gray Area Drinking Manifesto

There’s a collective drinking and anxiety story that is happening all around us. I call it gray area drinking and I used to be a gray area drinker. I wasn’t an end-stage, lose everything kind of drinker, I also wasn’t an every now and again drinker...